scratch paper

heated rivalry

& the sensory pleasures of looking

Jan 10 • Sanjana

435

24

61

October 2025

enemies2lovers

more casual notes on power & love

Oct 1, 2025 • Sanjana

53

9

5

September 2025

romance physics

the funky mechanics of enemies to lovers

Sep 1, 2025 • Sanjana

61

9

7

May 2025

romance discoursing (#2)

talking about how we talk about romance

May 31, 2025 • Sanjana

150

29

22

April 2025

yes, no, maybe so

thinking differently about consent, sex, and violence in romance

Apr 7, 2025 • Sanjana

110

18

27

February 2025

love letters

a casual retrospective on feb. and ongoing projects

Feb 28, 2025 • Sanjana

32

3

Romance & Heteropessimism

a lukewarm defense of being attracted to men

Feb 20, 2025 • Sanjana

405

44

72

January 2025

sex, romance, and adolescence

on childhood as a rhetorical device

Jan 29, 2025 • Sanjana

166

36

44

antidote to last week

in a world of serena van der woodsens, I'm hunting for blair waldorf

Jan 25, 2025 • Sanjana

53

12

11

romance discoursing

a digest of all the things I've been complaining about lately

Jan 16, 2025 • Sanjana

157

22

32

December 2024

in conversation with heather guerre

in which I get to discuss romance, power, justice, and intimacy with one of my favorite writers

Dec 7, 2024 • Sanjana

25

10

November 2023

notes on grief and allyship re: Palestine

some things I scribbled into my notes app on a subway ride home yesterday

Nov 2, 2023 • Sanjana

23

6

3